A Life Coach in training

Yes, the “cat is out of the bag”. I am roughly half way through my training to be a qualified life coach. My main goals are to deepen my knowledge in adult learning as well as to be better equipped to develop my interest in coaching and mentoring. I am currently supervised and coached by […]

Lesson from Les Miserables

Last night I watched the special edition of 25th anniversary of Les Miserables in concert live at the O2 Arena, London (dvd made in 2010). Even though I have seen the musical 8 times in both New York and London, it never failed to touch me each time I watched it. The main character Jean […]

IQ vs. EQ (Competencies)

Daniel Goleman quoted American Psychologist David McClelland “McClelland argued that once you were in a given job, specific competencies like self-discipline, empathy, and persuasion were far stronger forces in success than a person’s ranking in academics. He proposed the methodology that has become competence modeling — now common in world-class organizations — for identifying the […]

Beyond Motivation

Yesterday I ran into a colleague who heard about my book. When I “naturally” prompted him to purchase a copy, he replied “I am quite motivated myself already, so I don’t think I needyour book.”. I explained to him (and to all blog readers) that my book is not just about motivation. The book focuses […]

How to be good leaders?

Daniel Goleman has given the following advice on how to be good leaders? (p.238, Focus – The Hidden Driver of Excellence) “* Listening within, to articulate an authentic vision of overall direction that energizes others even as it sets clear expectations. * Coaching, based on listening to what people want from their life, career and […]

Preparation and Practice

In his book “Focus – The Hidden Driver of Excellence”, Daniel Goleman quoted an example based on Susan Butcher who reinvented the Iditarod (a race that sled dogs compete over a distance of more than 1,100 miles of Arctic ice for over a week). Her method is running and resting alternately in 4-to-6-hour periods around […]

New Sales Plan

With a 12-month sales target of 300 copies of my book, it means 32 copies (268 copies sold so far) need to be sold by the end of Sep, which is approx. 5 months away. I have a plan :> I will target 50% of sales, 16 copies, by asking friends and family to ponder […]