I gave an ex-colleague of mine my very last copy of my book last weekend. The last time I met her was at her wedding in Barcelona 8 years ago. Now she is a mother of 2 beautiful kids and living in Brazil. She has also launched an international cosmetic product company recently. Not sure […]
Author Archives: Raymond Yung
Agony Uncle and Big Uncle
My lovely nieces and nephews call me Big Uncle not because of my size (I am far from big if not counting my ego :>) but because I am the oldest of the 3 boys in my family. I am a frequent (“loyal” is a big word and I don’t want to exaggerate it) reader […]
New Year Resolution: British Expressions (2)
Here are the explanations for yesterday’s British expressions: 1) Bob’s your uncle = There you go/Sorted 2) All mouth and no trousers = All talks and no actions 3) Send someone to Coventry = Ignore or refuse to work with someone 4) Football’s a game of two halves = It is possible for someone’s fortunes […]
New Year Resolution: British Expressions(1)
On the last business day of Jan-2015, I finished the first round of a new year resolution that I had started with a colleague. We, two non-British people, have decided to learn more British expressions everyday at work. Some of the interesting ones so far are: 1) Bob’s your uncle 2) All mouth and no […]
Agility
Agility is considered as one the key elements in today’s leadership according to John Whitmore in his book titled Coaching for Performance. He suggested that we should add variations and changes to our routines so we can adapt to changes more easily. This is important in particular when you become set in our own ways […]
Lunch with Nobel Prize winner
Yesterday I had lunch with the Nobel Prize winner (Economics) Robert Shiller. Well, to be more precise (and accurate), it was a presentation to more than 50 audience with buffet lunch provided afterwards. One take-away point from his presentation is the importance of LONG data history in conducting research. To paraphrase and apply it in […]
In the Middle of a Storm
The news of the prediction of a snow storm in New York triggered my thought on the idea of how to cope with an emotional “storm”. My suggestions: 1) Anchor yourself psychologically. For example, remind yourself of your core value system based on religion, family, friendship…. 2) Don’t lose yourself. For example, when a group […]
All signs are good
The topic of Chinese New Year came up in the office. It will be the year of the GOAT by 18-Feb. A non-Chinese colleague disappointedly told me that he was born in the year of the RAT and added that he knows it is not a good sign among the 12 signs in the Chinese […]
Less is More
Sometimes it is harder to hold back your tongue (I should know out of all people) than saying something that you may regret later under the ‘banner’ of being honest. There are definitely circumstances for speaking up and conversely occasions for ‘holding your horses’. Try to assess which case it is before action. It is definitely not […]
I just want to say sorry
Sometimes that is all is needed especially when it is a genuine apology and the receipient has accepted it. There is no need to linger on providing multiple reasons plus going through your mind different scenarios with numerous what-ifs. Make it a clean-cut and sincere appology and go on with your life.