Grace under Fire (3)

To conclude on this topic, I am going to be a bit unorthodox and controversial here . I hope that it won’t cause too much of a turmoil among my circle of friends and family.
I would suggest making peace with the person who (in your opinion) has wronged you if all possible.
Firstly, it is very hard on yourself not to forgive and not to let it go. It actually takes a lot of your energy to hold grudges against someone (I am sure most people can attest to it). Secondly, sometimes (not always) relationship is more valuable than justice, money or your pride. Lastly, an apology (if it is the ultimate “fire extinguisher”) costs you nothing. You are no more nor less dignified after offering an apology (on the part that you might have done wrong). You are as strong as what you think you are, not based on other people’s opinions on you. This does not apply to all cases, but just in case it may be an option. One never knows :>